{"id":2515,"date":"2022-07-05T08:31:47","date_gmt":"2022-07-05T06:31:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/carobna-pot.si\/?p=2515"},"modified":"2022-07-05T08:31:50","modified_gmt":"2022-07-05T06:31:50","slug":"5-najpogostejsih-custvenih-pasti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/carobna-pot.si\/?p=2515","title":{"rendered":"5 najpogostej\u0161ih \u010dustvenih pasti,"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong>ZARADI KATERIH NE MOREMO NAPREDOVATI<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/carobna-pot.si\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/image.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"170\" height=\"113\" src=\"https:\/\/carobna-pot.si\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/image.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2517\"\/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Vsi si \u017eelimo biti \u0161e bolj sre\u010dni in izpolnjeni in v\u010dasih je fino, da se malce ustavimo in razmislimo, v kak\u0161no \u010dustveno past se najpogosteje ujamemo. Prvi korak je ta, da ugotovimo, kje se vrtimo in ponavljamo, drugi korak pa razre\u0161evanje vzrokov. Malce dela je s tem, ampak se spla\u010da, na koncu smo vedno nagrajeni. Torej najpogostej\u0161e pasti so:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>1. KRITIZIRANJE<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>2. PERFEKCIONIZEM<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>3. OBSOJANJE<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>4. ZAMERA<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>5. VLOGA \u017dRTVE<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pasti najpogosteje nastanejo v otro\u0161tvu, ker si kot otroci kadar na\u0161e \u010dustvene potrebe niso izpolnjene, prevedemo pa\u010d tako, da nismo dovolj dobri, dovolj vredni, dovolj ljubljeni. \u010ce smo v otro\u0161tvu bili dele\u017eni ve\u010d kritike kot pohval, potem se nam zgodi, da postanemo kritiki do sebe in posledi\u010dno do drugih.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Kriticizem<\/strong> je zelo trmasta nadloga in moramo biti prav pozorni na svoje izra\u017eanje, da ga zaznamo, saj se pogosto zavije v vatko in ga sploh ne opazimo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kadar se po\u010dutimo ne dovolj dobri, razvijemo <strong>perfekcionizem<\/strong>, zato da bo vse perfektno, dovolj dobro, da se doka\u017eemo. Ampak to lahko po\u010dnemo celo \u017eivljenje in sicer tako dolgo, dokler ne zacelimo ranjenega \u010dustva, da nismo dovolj dobri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u010ce smo bili pogosto <strong>obsojani,<\/strong> ravno tako razvijemo obrambni mehanizem in lahko za\u010dnemo obsojati tudi mi in se tako odmaknemo od svojih pravih ob\u010dutkov in negativnih prepri\u010danj o sebi.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>ZARADI KATERIH NE MOREMO NAPREDOVATI Vsi si \u017eelimo biti \u0161e bolj sre\u010dni in izpolnjeni in v\u010dasih je fino, da se malce ustavimo in razmislimo, v kak\u0161no \u010dustveno past se najpogosteje ujamemo. Prvi korak je ta, da ugotovimo, kje se vrtimo in ponavljamo, drugi korak pa razre\u0161evanje vzrokov. Malce dela je s tem, ampak se spla\u010da, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[13],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/carobna-pot.si\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2515"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/carobna-pot.si\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/carobna-pot.si\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/carobna-pot.si\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/carobna-pot.si\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2515"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/carobna-pot.si\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2515\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2518,"href":"https:\/\/carobna-pot.si\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2515\/revisions\/2518"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/carobna-pot.si\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2515"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/carobna-pot.si\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2515"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/carobna-pot.si\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2515"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}